This month provides The Family Dinner Project, and all of our friends, partners and followers, with many opportunities to share. In a season characterized by ideals of peace, goodwill and giving to others, the family dinner table can be a place where we all talk about what this month means to us, and to find ways to convert our good intentions into actions.
Here are a few ways we encourage you to use your dinner tables for sharing this month:
Our #familydinnerforward campaign for #GivingTuesday is going strong until December 15. When you download and share this family dinner menu, with a recipe from military spouse and author Sarah Smiley, our partners at Boston Market will make a donation through their #BostonMarketGives initiative to Blue Star Families. Their support will help provide holiday gifts and meals to military families whose loved ones are spending the season at Walter Reed Army Medical Center.
We’ve joined the American Association of Family and Consumer Sciences (AAFCS) in their annual “Dine In Day,” which takes place on December 3, 2015. Part of our goal in promoting “dining in” is to encourage families to think about the benefits of shared meals — not only the research-backed benefits, but the moments that make dinnertime unique and special in individual households. Use this Recipe for Conversation about shared meals to help your family focus on the meaning of the simple ritual of family dinner in the midst of the holiday hustle and bustle.
It’s all too common to let the holiday season rush past us, and to get caught up in doing things “just so.” Make sure to take some time to reconnect and share the joy with one another! You might try holding an Upside Down and Backwards night where you eat breakfast for dinner in your pjs or make a festive dessert before the main meal; have an Indoor Picnic in front of your favorite holiday movie (yes, you can have TV at the table just this once!); or take a Walking Dessert with you as you view the neighborhood light displays.
Not all families are fortunate enough to be able to share meals. The Family Dinner Project recently partnered with humanitarian aid organization CARE to help spread awareness about hunger worldwide. You can use our conversation starters to help family members of all ages understand a little bit about hunger and envision ways to help others.
Our friends at Usable Knowledge recently published this great interview with our co-founder, Dr. Anne Fishel, about how conversations at the dinner table help vocabulary and foster literacy skills in children. Are you sharing the gift of storytelling and imaginative fun with your family?
Dr. Fishel recommends, “Try recreating a favorite literary meal for dinner, and then read that book (or a portion of it) aloud. Split pea soup from George and Martha or spaghetti and meatballs from Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs are two possibilities. And don’t forget the many nursery rhymes that involve porridge, rice pudding, and blackbird pie (to name just a few). It could be fun to imagine what Harry Potter’s feasts at Hogwarts are like, or to create a high tea that Mary Poppins might like.”
Home for Dinner: Combining Food, Fun and Conversation for a Happier Family and Healthier Kids is not only a fantastic read, but also happens to be the brainchild of an FDP co-founder. It would make a great gift for those last hard-to-buy-for people on your shopping list!
We’re always looking for new families to feature on our website. If you have a story to share about how The Family Dinner Project has helped you change your dinners for the better, we want to hear it! Contact us and tell us about your experiences. We’re looking forward to connecting with you.
Warm up your winter with this Chai-Spiced Hot Cocoa – and make an extra batch of the mix to share with friends!
Share your hopes and dreams with one another using these conversation starters.
Sharing Hopes and Dreams Recipe for Conversation